Club recognized

Club recognized

Barb Forshey, Judy Edwards and Gloria Thomas with Garden Lover’s Club are presented Helping Hands award by Susan Lee, CCPN director, and Coy Hudson, CCPN board president.




Posted: Tuesday, May 21, 2013 7:00 am


Parenting Network recognizes garden club

CONOVER, N.C. — The Catawba County Parenting Network (CCPN) recently recognized the Garden Lover’s Club of Newton and Conover with a Helping Hands Service award.


The recognition is given by the Parenting Network to an organization or business that demonstrates outstanding leadership and commitment to helping the Parenting Network reach families with information and resources for their parenting journey.

“This group has given many hours of service to the Parenting Network. We are so very grateful for the beautiful landscaping they have provided over the years and the wonderful decorating they do each year during the holidays. They help us make a welcoming impression on families who come to our facility, and we very much appreciate their work and are honored they are willing to give their time to help our organization,” said Susan Lee, CCPN director.

Currently in its 13th year, the CCPN is a 501c3 nonprofit organization dedicated to assisting and equipping parents and primary caregivers with the knowledge and skills they need to strengthen their families. Parenting programs are available for parents, grandparents, and other primary caregivers of children ages 18 and younger. The Parenting Network is primarily funded by the Catawba County Partnership for Children (Smart Start).

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Tuesday, May 21, 2013 7:00 am.

I met a remarkable group of teachers last week. They spoke about their secondary school, which serves one of the most disadvantaged suburbs of Dublin. They feel privileged to be part of the lives of their students and they give their bone marrow every day to their work.

One man described how stepping into this classroom in the morning was like stepping on to the fast lane of a Formula One race track, with the traffic coming towards him. The sheer speed of the day was exhilarating, but draining.

Besides covering the prescribed coursework, demands of every kind come at him constantly: the boy who was having difficulties and needed extra encouragement to stay on top of things; the withdrawn girl who had brought with her into school the hurt and the aggression she had witnessed at home that morning; the stolen mobile; the fear in someone’s eyes who was being bullied, and the angry parent of the bully waiting downstairs; the football team who faced devastation in a week’s time from their neighbours unless they pull their socks up.


Second shift
When their day is done, these teachers leave for home to start a second shift. Their children and families are waiting with their own needs and demands. Another round of homework, tending to life’s bruises, equipping their children to face life, paying bills, caring for a sick relative and everything else.

In the scarce few minutes that they might try to grab for themselves on the drive home, they might turn on the radio to hear yet another round of teacher bashing. With their end-of-term energies at their lowest, these assaults reach fever pitch as teachers everywhere are attacked for having steady jobs and long summer holidays.

Standing there in the school library, with Colin Farrell looking right at me from the poster on the wall, I was moved by their passion and their commitment. I could have travelled for miles on their humour and warmth. But I also saw tired, exhausted faces. Teaching haemorrhages energy.

Their principal spoke about how crucial it was for each of them to look after their own mental and physical health. “We have trouble in this country,” she said, “with the whole idea of self-care.” With so many urgent demands made on us all of the time, going for a walk, working in the garden, watching TV or just taking time out to be quiet, can seem “selfish”.

She told us clearly that it was anything but. There was a beautiful permission in her words.

One man asked me to talk about how mindfulness could help.

Mindfulness is one of the ways we can mind ourselves. It is not the only way.

The trick for each of us is to find out what works for us, and to build this into our everyday routine.

With so much in our face that triggers fear, frustration and despair, our bodies contract with tension and pain. We may not realise that this is happening. Mindfulness is a way of being aware of how we are doing below the noise level. When we know how we are, we are in a much better position to know what to do.

When we are mindful, we don’t try to fix anything; we simply allow whatever is there, to be there. When we accept whatever we’re feeling, our feelings begin to untangle. We reconnect with our inner strength. We find our sea legs. We remember who we are and we trust that having survived this far, we have learned enough to see us through.


Navel-gazing
From the outside, mindfulness can look like a form of selfish navel-gazing. But mindfulness is just trying to get us beyond our noisy ego so that we can allow our real self to come alive.

In the latest Think Big research with young Irish people, one in three chose a teacher as the person outside of their family who inspired them the most. Next to parenting, teaching is the most important gift we give our children.

Tony Bates is founding director of Headstrong – The National Centre for Youth Mental Health

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Moore, Okla., tornado

Severe weather can be scary enough for adults, but do you remember how terrifying it was when you were a kid? There are some easy ways to help your children cope with their fear of tornadoes. The Family Conservancy suggests the following:

Answer all your child’s questions. Answer their questions and listen to their worries. Be sensitive and truthful during your conversation. You should also keep them away from the television and radio during severe weather and during the recovery when the devastation can be seen.

Prepare an emergency plan. If your child is afraid of a tornado hitting your home, work on an emergency plan with the whole family, so he or she knows what to do in severe weather. You can also reassure your child that the authorities have their own plans in place to help keep you safe.

Offer help to others. You can also do something positive to help out other people who have been hit by disasters. That will help your child understand people will help you out if something ever happened in your area.

Parenting: Perez Hilton Talks Being A Single Dad  Dating
With help from an egg donor and surrogate, Hilton welcomed Mario Armando Lavandeira, III.

Celebrity blogger Perez Hilton (aka Mario Armando Lavandeira, Jr.) is no stranger to having his hands full.

While managing multiple verticals of his self-titled blog, writing books, and making guest appearances worldwide, the formerly pink-haired Perez has added proud papa to his resume in Feb. Much like his opinions of the stars, the always outspoken single parent isn’t shy about expressing his love for his precious Perezito, Baby Mario.

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YourTango: Has fatherhood softened you in any way? Changed your outlook on life?
Perez Hilton:
It’s hardened me. Fatherhood has forced me to deal with life head-on—directly and immediately! I can’t go down to San Diego anymore and stay in a spa for a few days when I get stressed.

YourTango: How has fatherhood affected your dating life?
Perez Hilton:
What dating life? While there isn’t much to speak of, I remain open and optimistic!

YourTango: Who are the ideal celebrity parents in your opinion? 
Perez Hilton:
Jennifer Garner and me, because we work at it and are so hands-on.

YourTango: You just put out a new album; why is music so important to you? How did you pick your favorite indie artists?
Perez Hilton:
Music is like oxygen to me—essential! It was my first love. For this compilation, I wanted to do something different than the first. While Pop Up #1 was a party/gym mix, the focus of #2 is more singer/songwriters and taking listeners on a special journey.

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YourTango: If you wrote a love song about Taylor Swift’s life, what would you call it?
Perez Hilton:
“Talented and Rich.” She’s got lots of both.

 

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Kylie and her dad Bob on the trail. Photo: Courtesy of the Trawick family.In an effort to fight hunger, 13-year-old Kylie Trawick and her dad Bob are going the extra mile in a major way—hiking more than 2,180 miles from Georgia to Maine, at a clip of about 20 miles per day since setting off in late March. And, at 723 miles in, they’ve already surpassed their goal of raising one pound of food for every mile completed. About 4,000 pounds have already been donated in Kylie’s honor to food pantries across the country.

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The biggest challenge, as it turns out, has been for Bob, a 50-year-old registered nurse, to keep apace with his daughter. “Kylie is a phenomenal hiker, and she’s never quit anything in her life,” he told Yahoo! Shine by phone from Daleville, Virginia, where the two had stopped to rest and refuel for a couple of nights. “So the truth is, she’s wearing me out. She’s just so fit and strong! It’s the Sassafras Express and I’m clearly at the back.”

Muddy father-daughter hiker feet. Photo: Courtesy of the Trawick family.Sassafras is Kylie’s self-dubbed trail nickname, while her father’s is the apparently apropos Kaboose. They’ve been using the monikers to document their journey on a blog, “Sassafras and Kaboose 2013 Appalachian Trail Adventure” (and a Facebook page), which is chock full of photos, YouTube videos, details of terrain and weather, and even a complete list of their hiking gear, from a tent and sleeping bags to rain pants, fleece hats, headlamps and a denatured-alcohol fueled camp stove, all carried on their backs. They stop to buy more food every few days, and subsist on staples including mac and cheese, rice, fruit and Kylie favorites like candy bars and Pop-Tarts.

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The biggest challenge for Kylie, though, she told Shine, has been, “Just the mindset, hiking day after day.” To get through it, she explained, “I just take it day by day.”

It was Kylie’s Girl Scout troop in New Gloucester, Maine that inspired the teen to get involved with fighting hunger. When it came time to work toward a coveted silver badge, and she discovered that she’d have to work through too much red tape to set up a donation-based project with the Girl Scouts, she decided to launch a solo effort. So she teamed up with both the local New Gloucester Food Pantry and her dad, who had a long-held desire to hike the entire Appalachian Trail. Kylie, an avid hiker since age 7, thought the journey would be a perfect way to raise both awareness and funds. She has asked supporters to donate either money to the New Gloucester pantry or food to their local food banks.

“Local hunger is prevalent in New Gloucester Maine, and has been increasing each year,” she writes on her blog. “Hunger prevents people from reaching their full potential. It is an epidemic that’s threatening our future. One out of every five families goes hungry.”

Kylie taking a break. Photo: Courtesy of the Trawick familyAccording to the Rev. Linda Gard, pastor at the New Gloucester First Congregational Church, which houses the food pantry, Kylie’s efforts are already paying off. “I think it captures everybody’s imagination, that a girl like her would take on such an important thing,” Gard told Shine. “She’s an amazing kid. Nothing discourages her.”

Kylie—whose parents say is a great student, despite a learning disability, and who is an athlete who runs track and cross-country and plays softball and basketball—was lucky enough to get permission from the administration at her Gray-New Gloucester Middle School to exchange two months of class time for lessons in the wilderness.

“The school supported her 150 percent with this hike,” Kylie’s mom, Joyce, told Shine via phone. “It’s hard, having them gone, but it’s very exciting.” Though she was unable to join the pair on their journey because of health issues, Joyce, a lab analyst who also has her own clothing line, said they’ve been keeping her busy packing up and mailing them treats and new camping equipment to various P.O. boxes and hostels along the trail.

Though she speaks to her husband and daughter by cell phone at least every couple of days, Joyce, also a hiker, admits she does spend a bit of time worrying. “I know what the dangers are, so I am concerned about that,” she said, explaining that she’d tripped and dislocated her elbow at 4,000 feet on a five-day hike not long ago. “But I also know that their passion for hiking outweighs it.”

The Appalachian Trail, which passes through 14 eastern states from Georgia to Maine, encompasses peaks and valleys from New Hampshire’s Presidential Mountain Range to Virginia’s Shenandoah National Park, and is one of the most challenging hiking trails in the U.S. “Through hikers,” those who go the entire length in one long shot, are an esteemed and supportive bunch, and part of a thriving wilderness subculture. Of the thousands of hikers who attempt to complete the entire trail each year, according to the Appalachian Trail Conservancy website, only about one in four makes it without giving up.

But it’s those fellow hikers—as well as each other—that have been giving Kylie and her dad the extra push to stay positive, they said, and they expect to reach Maine sometime in September.

“The through-hiker culture is open and accepting and just wonderful with Kylie,” Bob said. “And watching her do this has been my biggest joy.”

When asked about the best part of the journey, Kylie told Shine it was not the mountain-top views or the sightings of wild ponies or white-tailed deer, but “the people,” and being with her dad. “We get along very well, and we’re very close,” she said. “Papa and I have been hiking together a long time.”

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Students protest graduation ban

Seven kids at East Carter High School in Grayson, Kentucky thought it would be funny to release 10,000 crickets in their school last Thursday morning as a senior prank. Unfortunately, school administrators didn’t get the humor. According to local WSAZ News, the seniors were not allowed to walk in their graduation ceremony on Saturday morning and will not receive their diplomas until they each pay a $600 fine.

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Some of the pranksters’ classmates came to their defense, “We’ve been to school with them since we were in diapers. It’s not fair to us to not have them there with us,” senior Alissa Lawson told WSAZ during a student protest on Friday night. Dozens of seniors chanted, “Let them walk [in graduation]” and held signs in support of the “Cricket Clan.” Kentucky state Senator Robin Webb, who once served as class president for East Carter High School, called the decision “overreaching” given that the kids had never had any disciplinary issues before.

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However, officials witCrickets in high school hallh the Carter County School District were not amused. “Expenses will continue to rise as cleanup efforts are still underway,” Principal Larry Kaiser said in a statement. “It is the stance of the Carter County School District that these actions, while meant to be a prank of sorts, are unacceptable.” He added that the bugs had skittled into the school’s nooks and crannies and that an expensive exterminator would have to be brought in. Kaiser did not respond to Yahoo!Shine’s request for an interview.

It turns out this isn’t the first time seniors have pulled a cricket prank—it’s not even the first time this graduation season. In late April, Fox8 reported that seniors at Brush High School in Lyndhurst, Ohio released crickets and also mice in the cafeteria (because is there anything more hilarious than insects and rodents invading a food-prep area?). They also painted school windows and decorated trees with toilet paper. A cricket trick in 2010, carried out in the middle of the night, led to a student’s arrest for burglary (as have numerous other pranks that either occurred after school hours or caused damage to school property.)

Senior pranks have become a rite of passage at many schools probably encouraged by YouTube where you can watch endless videos of amusing and not-so-amusing stunts. One popular practical joke involves packing common areas with thousands of full cups of water. The Brentwood Academy class of 2007 managed to set up 17,000 styrofoam cups in their hallway. Foil-wrapping (chairs, desk, whole rooms) is another go-to trick. Students at Stafford High School in Virginia wrapped their retiring principal’s SUV in foil. Luckily he had a sense of humor.

Unfortunately, many popular pranks are destructive, have the potential to cause injury, and might lead to suspension or other disciplinary action. School administrators may not find it so hilarious when seniors drop thousands of bouncy balls into the lobby or release three goats or piglets into the school numbered “1,” “2,” and “4.”  Note to seniors who actually want to graduate: Think costumes, bubbles, and balloons, not live animals, tacks, or super glue. In a harmless though effective gag carried out by one high school class, the kids all put alarm clocks set for the same time in their lockers.

A Tumblr devoted to senior pranks offers this inspiration: “The whole class will be wearing Crocs and Miranda Cosgrove masks.” Now, that’s funny.

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The deal includes 150 hours of programming per month with 80 accreditations running per hour as openers, closers and break bumpers on the channel.

The initiative will promote the brand’s new creative positioning, ‘Everyday Care and Protection’.

As well as the on-air promotion, the campaign includes digital activity such as an integrated microsite and mentions in Discovery’s newsletter. There will also be a competition, promoted on air, through social media and Discovery’s website.

Programming encompassed by the deal includes shows such as ‘Birth Day Girls’, which shows how a new baby can affect a couple’s life, and ‘Myleene Klass’ Bumps, Babies Beyond’, which is full of advice on parenting and family life. 

Juliane Niklaus, the senior brand manager, Bepanthen, said: “Our sponsorship of baby time on Discovery Home and Health allows us to speak to our audience of mums-to-be and new mums in an environment that is interesting and compelling but above all useful to them.

“We realise the importance of shared experiences, particularly in the daunting world of pregnancy and parenthood, which is why this partnership is a great fit for Bepanthen.”

Michael Holt, the director brand partnerships at Discovery Networks UK, and Ivan Lazorov, director, Mediacom Beyond Advertising, brokered the deal.

Martin Heaton-Cooper, the vice president, commercial development UK, Ireland IAS EMEA, Discovery, said: “At Discovery we’re all about storytelling and with this new partnership we are able to become part of our viewers’ stories too.”

Is La Toya Jackson ready to become a mom? Can she handle caring for a child? 

On the latest episode of her OWN series, “Life With La Toya,” Jackson took on babysitting duty just to see what it would be like to take care of not just one, but two kids.

Watch La Toya’s trial run with parenting below:

“Life With La Toya” airs Saturday nights at 10:30 pm on OWN.

Parenting. It’s a tough gig. All those decisions to make, some with lifelong
repercussions, on a daily basis. What to feed them? When to put them to bed?
When to wake them? How to treat them? How to connect with them? When to
confide in them? How to criticise them? How to make them happy? Sometimes,
it can all seem too much. As though the weight of the world is pressing down
upon your shoulders. Well, not any more. It’s time to kick back and relax,
mums and dads. Because we’ve got a magical panacea for all your parenting
ills. And it’s called … school.

No, really. That flaky pitch is unerringly close to the lived reality of
contemporary Britain for so many mothers and fathers, where government,
pressure groups, think tanks (left and right) and media pundits have all
unwittingly conspired to endorse a philosophy that can only be described as
the mass infantilisation of parenting. It’s also known as school. You know?
“Help! Help! I’ve got a child! What do I do? Oh, thank God! There’s a school
over there!” This week alone we’ve had reports of independent girls schools
introducing “First Bra Buying” lessons, because, really, why would a mother
want to do that with her own daughter? And we’ve had the National
Association of Head Teachers, with governmental support, planning a
leafleting blitz that will allegedly inform parents about the best ways to
feed their children, put them to bed and bond with them over board games.

And, crucially, there’s the apparently controversial news that, barely three
months after the Government promised a post-Olympic sports surge in national
education, a third of schools have reported a decline in sporting activities
among students. Which, in the context of a youth-obesity epidemic, is not a
good thing. “Help! Help! My child is obese! Oh, thank God! There’s a school
over there!”

I don’t get it. My own children’s school isn’t exactly a bastion of sporting
achievement, and yet it didn’t take an enormous leap of imagination, or any
unique interpersonal skills, to walk down to the local sports centre and
sign them up, variously, and with greater and lesser degrees of enthusiasm,
for football, cricket, running, swimming and diving. It’s annoying that you
have to kiss goodbye to your adult social life. And yes, it’s weird that you
spend the greater part of your non-working week driving around in the rain
to junior sporting fixtures, and drinking rubbish coffee from Styrofoam cups
with other equally addled parents. And yes, too, it’s odd that our kitchen
calendar is sometimes a mass in illegible scribbles, signalling the many,
almost daily, batting, whacking, kicking and splashing ensembles to come.

But isn’t that just bog-standard, economy-class parenting? Isn’t that what you
do? Isn’t that what you sign up for when they come into the world? That, and
all those tedious dietary decisions, the bedtimes, the awkward emotional
conversations, the conflicts, hysteria and heartfelt resolutions?

This is surely the fundamental nuts and bolts of parenting. And if you don’t
want to do it yourself, well, I guess there’s always Eton.

Spot-on for fearful flyers

It may be one of the top diva ballads that we love to hate, but I totally
believe that Adele’s Someone Like You is a cure for flying
anxiety. A recent psychological study, commissioned by Spotify, the music
service, suggested that the slow tempo 67-beats-per-minute of the track,
combined with the tune’s emotive and harmonious nature, reduced heart rate
and blood pressure and balanced both sides of the brain, which apparently
makes for the perfect flying experience.

I know all about this. I had acute flying phobia in the late Nineties, and I
once flew the whole way home from New York while listening to a single
emotive low-tempo track (One of the Three by James) on repeat. I must
have listened to it nearly 120 times but it did the job. I’m going to cue up
Adele for my next trip. Just in case.

Girls who let a house down

Speaking of schools … Curious to see much wailing and gnashing of teeth over
the news that this year’s leavers’ ball at Downe House, the Duchess of
Cambridge’s old school, has been cancelled after the sixth-form girls
allegedly held a riotous booze-fuelled “Guantanamo-themed” party (they all
wore orange prison jumpsuits, of the kind found in Guantánamo Bay detention
camp).

Apparently we are supposed to be shocked by the social media snaps of ossified
Kate-wannabes stumbling to the ground. And yet, isn’t the real offence here
the jumpsuits? And the creepy disjuncture between actual life in the
infamous Cuban camp and the daily routine at a £31,000-a-year boarding
school?

I can only suggest that the girls, bright sparks all, were making ironic
visual commentary about the disparity between the two forms of existence.
Something akin to Lindsay Anderson’s seminal film drama If. They were.
Weren’t they?

‘Must-Have’ Essential for Expectant Parents Now Available for Free on the App Store

LONDON--(BUSINESS WIRE)--May 20, 2013-- 

Health Parenting, a leading independent developer of healthcare and family-related mobile applications for expectant parents, has launched its ‘must-have’ pregnancy essentials app, Pregnancy week to week for iPad, available now on the App Store. Developed in partnership with a team of healthcare professionals, including obstetricians, midwives, dieticians and pediatricians, Pregnancy week to week is the most complete iPad app for women and their partners who are anticipating a new addition to the family.

One of the only pregnancy apps on the market with full size, high quality images for every week of the pregnancy, Pregnancy week to week is the only app expectant parents will need to get ready for the new baby. The app’s unique user interface can be personalized easily so that moms, dads or even grandparents can track the progress and growth of the baby week by week and get access to important information and straightforward advice to help them prepare.

“We’ve worked hard to provide the very highest quality, unbiased content to expectant moms and their partners to help support them and guide them through one of the most important times in their lives,” said Amber Miles, Founder and CEO, Health Parenting. “More than one million pregnant women and their partners have relied on our suite of pregnancy apps to prepare for the big day, and we’re proud to introduce Pregnancy week to week on iPad to give new parents even more ways to access our apps.”

Key features of Pregnancy week to week include:

   -- Full size, high quality images for every week of the pregnancy along with
      size guides so you can experience the weight and length of your baby week
      by week 

   -- Unique user interface that can be personalized easily 

   -- Daily tips and actions including what to eat, how much to each and what
      to stay away from to keep the growing baby safe and healthy 

   -- Timeline of important medical appointments including ultrasounds, gender
      scan and tests that should be scheduled 

   -- Organizer to keep track of important doctor visits, to-dos, phone numbers
      shopping lists, hospital bag necessities and more than 2,000 baby names
      to choose from 

   -- Kick counter to enable moms to track their baby's movements, and a
      contraction counter for when the big day arrives 

The Pregnancy week to week iPad app is available for free from the App Store on iPad or at www.AppStore.com. For more information on Pregnancy week to week or Health Parenting’s suite of apps, please visit http://www.health-and-parenting.com/

About Heath Parenting

Health Parenting Ltd provides a range of family-related applications for iPod, iPhone and Android. These include a pregnancy, fertility and period app. Health Parenting Ltd offers independent information written by leading healthcare professionals. High quality photography, a personalized user interface and ease of use are key features of all Health Parenting Ltd’s applications.


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